What To Say In A First Dating Site Message

Ok, here’s the experiment. We analyzed over 500,000 first contacts on our dating site, OkCupid. Our program looked at keywords and phrases, how they affected reply rates, and what trends were statistically significant. The result: a set of rules for what you should and shouldn’t say when introducing yourself. Online dating advice at its best. Oct 26, 2020 Chaser type message. So let’s look first at 3 ‘low value’ first messages you can send on a dating app, where you look like a CHASER. Note: I don’t like the expression ‘low value’ – of course we all have value as people, but you need to start communicating like a man who has standards and choice when it comes to dating.